I’m noticing a lot of this lately, and it disturbs me. Let’s look at the scenario from both sides.
The Prospective Employer
(I don’t know how it happened for Jeremy, but I’ve watched it happen repeatedly at work.) A hiring manager puts up a job listing and receives a stack of resumes. He or she sifts through them to find the top group of potential interviewees. The hiring manager calls them to schedule the interviews. One declines the interview spot immediately because they have already been offered a job elsewhere. One immediately sets up an interview for the next day. The rest don’t even return the message left on their voice mail for two or three days.
The one who immediately set their interview shows up fifteen minutes late, unapologetic for their tardiness. Another interviewee also shows up late, a victim of the always-heavy traffic.
One interviewee, however, seems eager and yet detached. They set the interview. They call up the day before to confirm the time and location of the interview. The hiring manager prepares for the interview, even as an emergency project hits their desk, and patiently paces their office, waiting for the interviewee. After about fifteen minutes, the hiring manager starts organizing the emergency project, trying to remain available for the interviewee when they arrive. Half an hour after that, the project is in full swing. The hiring manager is muttering, wondering what’s keeping the interviewee from either arriving or calling. An hour after the interview’s start time, the hiring manager marks the resume as a no-show and dumps it in a file of people to not consider in the future, and tries to make up the hour lost to the rude interviewer.
The Prospective Employee
(What I can only imagine from helping so many friends work on their own job search, although my friends don’t pull this particular stunt, and from living in my current home.) The job searcher spends hours putting together a resume that sells them into their dream job. They write up the perfect cover letter. They comb the job boards, Craigslist, and anywhere else they can think of. Finding jobs that either fit or come close to fitting what they want, the job searcher sends out their polished resume and cover letter.
Lo and behold, they get that first nibble, the first sign that they may not have to live off ramen anymore. A hiring manager calls and offers an interview. The job searcher takes it. Somewhere between that first call and the interview, a variety of things happen. The job searcher is offered another interview with a company they’d rather work for, so they blow off the first interview they set up for the preferred interview. With no phone call to the first hiring manager, this is rude and puts a black mark against your name should you ever decide to apply at that company in future. Sometimes, the job searcher receives a job offer before their slated interview. In their excitement (benefit of the doubt), they completely forget to call and cancel their interview. Again, this isn’t terribly polite, and hiring managers do note this kind of thing.
My personal favorite, though, is when the job searcher blows off an interview because they got a better offer. The offer was to go skiing with their friends who are playing hooky from their own jobs. (Yes, I’ve seen this one happen.) Same result: the job searcher has no job, and they’ve earned themselves a reputation at the company they were supposed to be interviewing with. Even if the job searcher calls in after the interview slot and asks for a reschedule because of an illness, the hiring manager isn’t likely to take the job searcher seriously. (They tend to be very understanding if you call at least a few hours beforehand and let them know you’re sick. Hiring managers aren’t heartless beasts.)
The moral of the story
If you really want a job, then act like it. Keep your appointments. If you genuinely can’t make it or are running late, then call and let them know that. It will leave a more favorable impression on the hiring manager, who is a person who understands that things happen sometimes. Don’t bother with everything you’ve read about finding a job unless you actually intend to put forth the effort to go through the job search process.